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Christian porn addiction is becoming one of the major problems in churches across America and other nations. Pastors and ministers are aware that the widespread availability of porn on the Internet, through television , on bookstands and in magazines, is enticing men, and women, to engage in sexually destructive behaviours that are leading many to painful addictions. Marriages are suffering, individuals are wracked with guilt over their secret sin, and as a result, the whole church suffers.

Sadly also, it is not only the congregations that are subject to the onslaught of pornographic material. Many ministers are also secretly addicted to porn. Standing before their congregation their confidence is broken, for on the inside they know that addiction has become a lord over their life, not Christ. Sexual images bombard their mind as they try and preach, accusing and condemning them. For many they feel that they have nowhere to turn and no one to talk to about their problem, and because it is kept in the dark in this way it simply gets worse and worse.

Thankfully however, courses and programs have been devised that will allow those engaged in sexually addictive behavior of this kind to walk to freedom. Recognising the need for anonymity as well as accountability programs like the Candeo program and others have devised ground breaking ways to help the Christian porn and Christian masturbation addict break completely free of their addiction and destructive habits.

Using proven methods and technology these programs carry those bound by wrong habits step by step back to a place where they are free again to make their own choices about what they look and listen to, totally free of the compulsive need to view porn on the Internet or in magazines.

If you are Christian and have problems with porn, make the decision today to begin your journey to freedom, and enjoy the life God intended for you.

Porn addiction has become a common cause for many marital problems.Marriage counseling forums contain countless cries for help from womanso desperate to find help in dealing with  their husband’s porn addiction that they “go public” on forums hoping for some good advice on treatments and cures for the addiction.

At a 2003 meeting of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, two thirds of the 350 divorce lawyers who attended said the Internet played a significant role in the divorces in the past year, with excessive interest in online porn contributing to more than half such cases. Pornography had an almost non-existent role in divorce just seven or eight years ago!

It’s incredible how influential the Internet has become in our lives, for both good and bad. But for men and women involved with someone with a porn habit, it can look like the most evil invention ever. Stories of feelings of betrayal, insult and sadness are all over the advice forums. Many of the answers advice leaving the addict, some suggest looking to God for salvation and others suggest seeking psychological counseling. What is for sure, it is a big problem and growing bigger.

It’s important to recognize that the problem is not with the porn addict. A boyfriend or husband is not turning to pornography because of dissatisfaction with the relationship but because of a deeper problem. And more than likely, he recognizes that he has a problem with porn that is effecting his quality of life.  Remember, he chose to be with you, he loves you. Promises to try to overcome the porn addiction are likely truly genuine. But when he submits and goes back to looking at porn on the Internet again, it is not about not being satisfied with his sex life or his wife. It is an addiction and he is not in control.

Getting help for pornography addiction can be difficult. Admitting to a stranger that you have a problem with pornography, talking about it, paying for expensive therapy . . . So most porn addicts go untreated.

Having recognized the problems people have in seeking out treatment for porn addiction, it was obvious  that a discrete solution for helping people to stop their porn addiction is really needed. The Addiction Way Out program will allow porn addicts and the people that want to help them get cured, enter a recovery and compliance program in the comfort and privacy of their own home. Advanced technology tools for enforcing rules about acceptable online behavior are included in the program, making it the first online porn addiction recovery program with enforcement built in.

Some say pornography is good for everyone, but they are very wrong. Many porn addicts don’t even have a personal life no more, and it’s hard for them to socialize.

Pornography can create monsters. If you don’t believe me, just watch the news and I am sure you will be convinced. Rapes happen everyday, kids are sexual molested and families are destroyed, and the number one to blame is pornography.
Pornography affects people in many ways, and I’ll be talking about 3 domains where pornography can affect us:

1. Personal life.
Maybe in the beginning you might say watching porn is not bad, and you won’t get addicted to it, but like drugs, pornography creates addiction. Once you are hooked on porn it’s really hard to escape. There will be a hunger inside of you that won’t stop and day by day you will want more porn, and you will spend more time watching porn.
Maybe in the beginning you will watch porn for 30 minutes per days, but with time you will increase this time, to maybe hours and won’t be satisfied with “simple” porn. You might move to more explicit and more “kinky ” sexual material. Your life will be ruled by this addiction.

2. Family life.
Once you are hooked on porn you won’t have any time to spend with your family and friends. If you are married, porn addiction can lead to argues and in many cases to divorce. Having a sexual partner won’t satisfy your hunger for pornography.

3. Work.
If you are employed, pornography can cause you a lot of trouble, especially if you watch it at work. Studies have shown that more than 20% of all men and 13% of all women usually access porn sites at work. If you get caught watching pornography at work you might get fired, and this will be bad for your next job.